WHAT DOES IT MEAN TO BE A QUIET PROFESSIONAL?
1) Service.
Service to your team, your family, your
community, your profession. Someone ready to serve. A promise keeper. Reliable.
Solid
2) Mission First.
It took me until my 40s (I’m a slow learner…)
to realize, “It’s not about me.” I’ve finally matured past the point of chasing
individual accolades or accomplishments – and have come to realize these can be
as fleeting, and unfulfilling as a shiny new purchase. Turning this corner is
incredibly liberating. Ambition, angst, jealousy have faded and with their
evaporation has come a growing sense of solace. I’m intense, and have sought
this solace, but until my 40’s thought it would come when I’d reached an
“acceptable” level of personal accomplishment. Only when I let that go and put
the mission, and others, first, have I begun to realize a budding sense of
peace.
To be clear. It’s not about you. Accept,
understand and embrace this. It’s liberating.
3) Hard Work.
Quiet professionals are “grinders.” There’s an
understanding that huge leaps forward are few and fleeting, and most
advancement is evolutionary. Keep grinding, keep improving, keep learning, have
patience, and improvement is steady. Daily small steps forward lead to big gains
over time. Stop looking for shortcuts and get to work.
4) Understanding the difference between
“Experience” and “Wisdom.”
Everyone has experience. Wisdom comes from
reflection, admitting and owning mistakes, forgiving yourself, learning and
stepping back up to the plate for another swing.
5) Knowing what to do = Easy.
Doing it = Hard.
Most of life is fairly simple and direct.
Ninety-nine percent of the time we know what the “right” thing to do is. Our
overthinking minds and selfish selves will try to confuse things with
rationalization, but we know deep down what is right. It’s the doing it
that is hard.
Quiet professionals push away the
rationalization and focus on the hard truths with clear eyes. They identify the
right action and do it.
No one is perfect. When they don’t do the
right thing, quiet professionals reflect, learn from it, forgive themselves and
look forward intent on future improvement.
6) Humility + Humor.
The more I learn, the less I am sure of. All
my 30’s righteousness has been replaced by “it depends” …. and a good laugh at
myself.
7) Continual Professional Learning.
Driven not by competitiveness and ambition but
by a sincere wish to improve and a strong respect for the profession.
8) Do your Job.
Quietly, consistently, professionally, well.
Every day.
9) Don’t get too far from your purpose.
Vacations are fine. Hobbies are nice. But they
aren’t your life’s work. Quiet professionals don’t live for the weekend. They
find engagement, fulfillment, and joy in their work and it’s never far from the
front of their mind.
Work isn’t a burden – it’s part of who
you are – and enriches your life and the lives of the others you serve
through it.
10) Embrace the suck.
Life is not fair. Everything worth doing is
hard. There’s often no light at the end of the tunnel. Don’t whine. Don’t
bemoan. Embrace it, smile, and soldier on.
11) Resilience.
You’ve got to be able to shake it off and get
back in the saddle. This takes grit, but also forgiveness (mostly of yourself),
humility, and likely more work on the fundamentals.
12) Living a life of adventure and
enthusiasm.
You don’t need to climb Everest, ride your
motorcycle to Chile, or raft the Yukon for “real” adventure. Strive to find
adventure every day – start a business, parent a child, coach a team, change
careers, write a book. What makes “adventure” exciting is the uncertainty
of the outcome and the richness of the journey along the way. All
adventure takes a “jump” into the unknown. Make those jumps, and do so with
vigor and enthusiasm. Have some damn spirit! ….. It will keep you young
and life exciting.
13) Gratitude.
Professional and private. Much easier when you
are able to live in the present – and truly appreciate how fortunate you are
and how amazing your life is and the people in your life are.
